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Reaching A Critical Mass

28 Apr

As goes New York, so goes the nation?

Advocates for marriage equality suffered a devastating defeat in 2009, when efforts to legalize same-sex marriage in New York fell eight votes short in the Senate after receiving strong support in the state’s Assembly.

Many may recall Senator Diane Savino’s powerful and heart wrenching testimony in defense of gay marriage prior to the bill’s defeat, stating for all to hear that “we have nothing to fear from love and commitment.”

“If there’s anybody threatening the sanctity of marriage,” Savino said, “it comes from those who have the privilege and the right, and we have abused it for decades.”

A renewed fight to grant marriage equality has resurfaced in New York, stronger than ever. And this time, it may have larger ramifications for the country and the world.

“A win in New York will provide significant momentum for the movement nationally and, quite frankly, internationally,” says Brian Ellner of the Human Rights Campaign. “New York is very significant.”

Why has the landscape changed so drastically in less than two years?

This time, it’s personal.

The true-life stories of decent men and women who have suffered first-hand the inequality of being denied the right to marry the person they love has struck a chord with citizens both in New York and across the country, resulting in many to switch sides.

“That debate has been replicated hundreds and thousands of times over the Internet, emails and coffee klatches and over glasses of wine in New York’s suburbs that has rapidly changed – at an accelerated pace – public opinion.” says Bruce Gyrory, a political science professor at the University of Albany.

Even populations traditionally seen as reliably conservative, such as Catholics, have seen rising support for marriage equality.

Support for marriage has dramatically increased in New York, reaching as high as 58% in a recent poll. “I think at the point you cross 60 percent and approach 2:1 levels of support, the opposition loses its critical mass,” says Gyory.

And as overwhelming support among younger generations continues to make its mark, the realization that this fight is close to a tipping point has begun to dawn.

Law firm King & Spalding, who signed on defend the now defenseless DOMA on behalf of House Republicans, dropped a bomb earlier this week when it abruptly withdrew from the case. Reports of internal conflict and “mayhem” were rampant. “Management was divided, people were threatening to quit,” said one source.

Prior to King & Spalding’s exit, the response from the LGBT community had been strong and forceful. And while DOMA has already recruited fresh defenders in the wake of its latest setback, don’t expect public support to be on their side anymore.

In its latest episode, “Glee” reached new heights of fabulous when its cast belted out Lady Gaga’s gay pride anthem “Born This Way.” It depicted a high school coming together in a defining moment of unity.

Having already called the show a “disgusting gay teen sex romp”, Dan Gainor, a conservative media critic, was less than pleased, panning the show’s creator Ryan Murphy and calling the episode his “latest depraved initiative to promote his gay agenda.”

“This is clearly Ryay Murphy’s vision of what growing up should be, not most of America’s. It’s a high school most parents would not want to send their kids to.”

Hate to break it to you, Mr. Gainor, but you’re dead wrong. Your words have lost their power to persuade. Your hateful rhetoric no longer has a place in a country that is turning increasingly towards love and fairness.

You’re history.


23 Apr

In a move straight out of an Orwell novel, Tennessee state Senator Stacey Campfield’s “Don’t Say Gay” bill has advanced out of committee and will be sent to the Senate floor.

The bill would effectively criminalize teachers and school officials who talk about homosexuality before the ninth grade.

Conveying the message that being gay is neither appropriate nor suitable for public discussion, Campfield is attempting to further alienate and isolate a vulnerable population from seeking help and guidance from educators.

Supporters of the bill maintain age sensitivity is the primary goal, but Matthew Parsons, a socially conservative advocate and founder of the anti-gay “Something Better” campaign, may have spoken too soon. “If we’re talking about homosexuality, we are talking about specific acts that are going to be unhealthy for anybody to engage in outside of marriage.”

Let’s be clear. Campfield’s proposed bill has nothing to do with what is “age appropriate.” This is about fundamentally altering society. It would effectively prohibit speech and further push the civil rights struggle away from mainstream radar. Out of sight, out of mind.

“The ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill raises all kinds of issues about anti-gay bias, free speech and government overreach,” said Tennessee Equality’s Ben Byers. “It means [teachers] can’t talk about gay issues or sexuality even with students who may be gay or have [a] gay family.”

Once again, we are witnessing a scared GOP attempting to limit debate and stifle meaningful conversation. The party of small government seems perfectly supportive of government’s large hand so long as it furthers their culturally radical agenda.

Senator Campfield’s cowardly attempts to institutionalize discrimination are painfully obvious for anyone with half a mind to see. If it’s a debate about substantive issues you wish to have, I welcome that debate. But leave the children out of it.

In case you missed it…

16 Apr

Though it may be the second smallest state in the Union and home to less than a million people, Delaware took a giant step towards equality this week when the House of Representatives voted 26-15 to legalize civil unions for same-sex couples. Having passed the state Senate last week and with the Governor’s pledge to sign the historic bill into law, Delaware is set to become the eighth state to grant civil unions.

Lisa Goodman, the president of Equality Delaware who worked closely with the Human Rights Campaign to support its passage, praised the vote. “There are a lot of happy people here,” she said. “We made Delaware a fairer and better place for same-sex couples and all families today.”

Louis Marinelli released a statement following the vote, declaring “equal protection under the law is basic to the fundamental dignity of all citizens.”

If that name doesn’t ring a bell, consider this.

For years Marinelli championed his anti-gay marriage views and worked closely with the National Organization for Marriage (NOM), spreading intolerance and working to defeat proponents of gay marriage. Last year, he took his message on the road as part of a Summer for Marriage Tour.

Earlier this week, Marinelli made headlines when he publicly reversed course and endorsed marriage equality.

“Whether it is an issue of disbelief, shame or embarrassment, the one thing that is for sure is that I have come to this point after several months of an internal conflict with myself. That conflict gradually tore away at me until recently when I was able to for the first time simply admit to myself that I do in fact support civil marriage equality.”

In calling for marriage rights for gay couples, Marinelli says the Constitution “calls for nothing less.”

Marinelli’s defection didn’t go unnoticed. Following his change of heart and mind, the National Organization for Marriage’s Facebook group lost 290,000 supporters.

It’s never too late to start over.

Keeping Sight

9 Mar

One week ago, the Supreme Court upheld the constitutionality of Westboro Baptist’s funeral protests. It was a landmark ruling in defense of the First Amendment, and it was also the right decision. “The hard fact is that sometimes we must make decisions we do not like,” Justice Kennedy wrote in a concurring opinion for 1989’s Texas v. Johnson flag-burning case. “We make them because they are right.”

With signs that read “God Hates Fags” and “Thank God for Dead Soldiers”, you’d be hard pressed to find even the coldest of hearts who would defend the utterly deplorable cesspool that is Fred Phelps and his Westboro thugs. But as much as we hate to admit it to ourselves, there remains a fundamental right to free speech that must be protected even in the most distasteful of occurrences. “If there is a bedrock principle underlying the First Amendment,” Justice Brennan wrote in Texas v. Johnson’s majority opinion, “it is that the government may not prohibit the expression of an idea simply because society finds the idea itself offensive or disagreeable.” Brennan goes on to write that to “punish those who feel differently about these matters” is not right. “It is to persuade them that they are wrong.”

Today, 86 openly gay state legislators are doing just that. These brave and courageous men and women have stepped out of the closet and into the public spotlight to give voice to an underrepresented and sometimes invisible population. They do not seek to attack those whose beliefs differ from their own, their battle wages on day-to-day as they work to change the hearts and minds of their co-workers and constituents.

Fortunately, these legislators are not alone in their struggle as countless other LGBT-friendly lawmakers work tirelessly in this war over civil rights. But the existence of openly gay legislators impacts the lawmaking process in profound ways, as evidenced in Illinois and Hawaii where LGBT representatives led the way in making civil unions a reality. Similar efforts are taking place in Maryland, Rhode Island, and New York to legalize same-sex marriage. “For my colleagues, knowing that I am not allowed to marry the person that I love and want to marry, that’s very powerful,” said Tom Duane, a senator from New York who will soon sponsor a marriage equality bill. “It’s more difficult for them to take for granted the right they have to marry when I don’t have it.”

A mere five African American representatives served in Congress to see the passage of 1964’s transformational Civil Rights Act. A total of 131 African Americans have served in Congressional history, 71% of those coming after 1970. The increased presence of African Americans in elected office helped further the momentum of the civil rights era, and in 1977 Harvey Milk became the first openly gay man elected to public office in California. Speaking in regards to gay youth across the country, Milk said, “the only thing they have to look forward to is hope. And you have to give them hope. Hope for a better world, hope for a better tomorrow, hope for a better place to come to if the pressures at home are too great. Hope that all will be all right. Without hope, not only gays, but the blacks, the seniors, the handicapped, the us’es, the us’es will give up. And if you help elect to the central committee and other offices, more gay people, that gives a green light to all who feel disenfranchised, a green light to move forward. It means hope to a nation that has given up, because if a gay person makes it, the doors are open to everyone.”

In this transitionary period of gay rights that we live in, it is vital that we elect more openly gay or LGBT friendly leaders into office. It’s time to be honest with our legislators: If you wish to stand in the way of progress, so be it. But our voices will be heard resoundingly through the ballot box, and those who impede change will soon be replaced with voices of reason and understanding.

“If a bullet should enter my brain,” Milk once said in the event of his assassination, “let that bullet destroy every closet door in the country.” More than three decades after Milk uttered these tragically fateful words, it’s time we live up to his legacy. This country needs another Harvey Milk. Many more.

It’s time for closeted legislators to come out and join the side of history.

It’s time we send a message to businesses who don’t think twice before donating to anti-gay candidates: enough is enough.

It’s time we shed those squeamish feelings of unease about what others may think.

It’s time to persuade them that they are wrong.

The ruling in favor of Westboro Baptist may be a discouraging development. Sometimes, the right decision isn’t always the morally justifiable decision. Detours that threaten to derail progress will come and go, but we mustn’t lose sight as to what this battle is really and truly all about: Love.

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Maryland, Rhode Island, New York, & Hawaii Step up to Bat

11 Feb

Baseball is just around the corner, don’t expect the references to stop now.

The struggle for marriage equality continues today as Maryland, Rhode Island, New York, and Hawaii are all on the verge of passing bills in the legislature that would grant either marriage or civil unions to same-sex couples. Maryland in particular is on the verge of becoming only the fifth state in the Union to allow gay marriage (marriage is legal in Washington DC, as well as in Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, New Hampsire, and Vermont).

The issue that has been unfolding over the last several weeks is now evolving and changing daily. Governor O’Malley has already voiced his support for the bill and is prepared to sign it into law if passed. Democratic State Senator James Brochin, who previously opposed the bill, has just changed positions after what he said was “appalling” testimony from marriage opponents. “Witness after witness demonized homosexuals, vilified the gay community, and described gays and lesbians as pedophiles.”

One Republican Senator, Allan Kittleman, has been brave enough to stand in tow with 20 other senators who support the bill (18 of whom are Democrats). Kittleman, who had served as the Minority Whip of his party, stepped down from his position as a result of his support.

The bill is expected to pass through committee and make it to the floor next week where it will need 24 votes to make it to O’Malley’s desk. Six senators remain undecided, all of whom are Democrats who come from districts with high African-American populations.

Maryland is a particularly interesting state to follow in this debate, as seven legislators are openly gay. Many have credited their advocacy as a large part in this bill’s continued success so far.

“I would probably think that having members of the General Assembly who are very well-respected people that you work with every day, that you have relationships with, I think it makes it difficult to say to them that you don’t deserve the same rights that I do. I think that might have something to do with it,” says Delegate Eric M. Bromwell, who is sponsoring the bill.

On Tuesday, Maryland’s legislature held public hearings to discuss the bill. Hundreds of supporters and opponents alike flooded the hearing room to give their testimony. Included was 14-year-old Maya Polyak, who spoke in defense of her two mothers.

The public forum has changed drastically over the years. New media and technology has revolutionized the way ordinary citizens can communicate and discuss topics of concern. This blog, for instance, is one of those new ways that up until a few years ago would not have been possible. The public sphere is no longer limited in scope or location. It’s everywhere, all the time. But that doesn’t seem to have stopped engaged citizens from participating in these public hearings that allow for the type of discourse that democracy intended.

We mustn’t be afraid of those whose aim is take away rights. The marketplace of ideas, despite frustration over the pace of progress, works. And it will work here. It has already changed the hearts and minds of many, including Senator Brochin. Those who support marriage equality are on the right side of history. Love is like light. You can’t put it out.

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